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Yearning
Exploring deep longing for a person, place, possibility or different way of life, and what that longing may reveal.
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Frequently asked questions
What are the best books to read about yearning?
A good place to start is the fiction, nonfiction, and poetry suggested in this reading list. They each explore this theme differently, so you can select what you are connecting with the most.
Can reading really help with yearning?
Yes, although it should not be viewed as a substitute for therapy. The right book can help you articulate feelings you have struggled to explain, offer reassurance that you are not alone, and provide a new perspective. Sometimes that insight is exactly what you need; at other times, it can encourage you to seek further support.
Who curates the Yearning reading list?
Bijal Shah, a bibliotherapist, founder of Book Therapy and The Book Therapy Method and the author of Bibliotherapy: The Healing Power of Reading (Hachette, 2024). She has spent over ten years matching readers to books for all kinds of emotional and life themes, including yearning.
Do I need a Book Therapy membership to see the full yearning list?
Yes. The full Yearning reading list, with my notes on each book and the personal reading tools, lives inside the Book Therapy membership. You also get the whole A to Z of Book Prescriptions, the journalling, and writing tools and reading progress tracking.
Are these yearning books suitable if I've never read anything on the topic before?
Yes. The list is deliberately diverse in order to ensure there is something for everyone, whether that's a short memoir, a poem to sit with over a cup of tea, or a novel to properly disappear into. If something feels too close to what you're going through right now, you have the option to put it down. And another book on the list might be more helpful.
Related reading lists
If Yearning resonates, these companion themes from the A–Z of Book Prescriptions may meet you next.
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Youth & Adolescent Mental Health
Exploring the emotional challenges of childhood and adolescence, including identity, belonging, relationships, pressure and growing independence.
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Career Concerns
Exploring work-related uncertainty, dissatisfaction, ambition and change, helping us reflect on what we want from our careers.
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Caring
Exploring the rewards and challenges of caring for others while recognising the importance of the carer's own wellbeing.
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Coming Out
Exploring the personal and emotional journey of sharing one's LGBTQ+ identity, including courage, belonging and self-acceptance.
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Courage
Exploring what it means to act with bravery, particularly when facing fear, uncertainty, vulnerability or change.
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Divorce
Exploring separation, grief, identity and rebuilding life following the end of a marriage or long-term partnership.