Letter Y
Yearning
Exploring deep longing for a person, place, possibility or different way of life, and what that longing may reveal.
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Frequently asked questions
What are the best books to read about yearning?
A good place to start is the fiction, nonfiction, and poetry suggested in this reading list. They each explore this theme differently, so you can select what you are connecting with the most.
Can reading really help with yearning?
Yes, although it should not be viewed as a substitute for therapy. The right book can help you articulate feelings you have struggled to explain, offer reassurance that you are not alone, and provide a new perspective. Sometimes that insight is exactly what you need; at other times, it can encourage you to seek further support.
Who curates the Yearning reading list?
Bijal Shah, a bibliotherapist, founder of Book Therapy and The Book Therapy Method and the author of Bibliotherapy: The Healing Power of Reading (Hachette, 2024). She has spent over ten years matching readers to books for all kinds of emotional and life themes, including yearning.
Do I need a Book Therapy membership to see the full yearning list?
Yes. The full Yearning reading list, with my notes on each book and the personal reading tools, lives inside the Book Therapy membership. You also get the whole A to Z of Book Prescriptions, the journalling, and writing tools and reading progress tracking.
Are these yearning books suitable if I've never read anything on the topic before?
Yes. The list is deliberately diverse in order to ensure there is something for everyone, whether that's a short memoir, a poem to sit with over a cup of tea, or a novel to properly disappear into. If something feels too close to what you're going through right now, you have the option to put it down. And another book on the list might be more helpful.
Related reading lists
If Yearning resonates, these companion themes from the A–Z of Book Prescriptions may meet you next.
Letter Y
Youth & Adolescent Mental Health
Exploring the emotional challenges of childhood and adolescence, including identity, belonging, relationships, pressure and growing independence.
Letter N
Nature & Connection
Exploring how the natural world can foster perspective, belonging, calm and a deeper connection with ourselves.
Letter J
Joy & Wonder
Celebrating curiosity, delight and the moments of connection or beauty that make life feel richer.
Letter J
Jealousy
Exploring insecurity, attachment and fear of loss, and what jealousy can reveal about our emotional needs.
Letter K
Kindness & Self-Compassion
Exploring gentler ways of relating to ourselves and others, particularly during difficulty, disappointment or change.
Letter L
Loneliness
Exploring the experience of feeling disconnected or unseen and the human need for meaningful companionship and belonging.