Letter J
Joy & Wonder
Joy is not frivolous. These reads treat wonder, play, and small ecstasies as serious equipment for a hard life.
Dear reader,
Joy is not frivolous. These reads treat wonder, play, and small ecstasies as serious equipment for a hard life. If you have ever finished a book and thought, "how did they know?", that is the part of reading I care most about. This is a small collection of books about joy & wonder that I keep coming back to, and that readers keep telling me made a real difference. It gathers 2 fiction titles, 2 nonfiction titles, and 2 poetry titles.
You will find writers like Aimee Bender, Ross Gay, and Susanna Clarke here, each one approaching joy & wonder in their own way. Some are practical and clear, some are messier and more personal, and a few simply keep you company on a hard evening. There is no right order to read them in. Start with whichever title sounds most like where you are today, and put anything down that feels too close for now.
One small note: these books are here as good company, not as a fix. They are not a replacement for therapy or medical care, but reading has been helping people make sense of themselves for a very long time, and the right book at the right moment can genuinely shift something.
Warmly,
Bijal x
Learn more about Bibliotherapy in my book, Bibliotherapy: The Healing Power of Reading.
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Frequently asked questions
What are the best books to read about joy & wonder?
A good place to start is the fiction, nonfiction, and poetry suggested in this reading list. They each explore this theme differently, so you can select what you are connecting with the most.
Can reading really help with joy & wonder?
Yes, although it should not be viewed as a substitute for therapy. The right book can help you articulate feelings you have struggled to explain, offer reassurance that you are not alone, and provide a new perspective. Sometimes that insight is exactly what you need; at other times, it can encourage you to seek further support.
Who curates the Joy & Wonder reading list?
Bijal Shah, a bibliotherapist, founder of Book Therapy and The Book Therapy Method and the author of Bibliotherapy: The Healing Power of Reading (Hachette, 2024). She has spent over ten years matching readers to books for all kinds of emotional and life themes, including joy & wonder.
Do I need a Book Therapy membership to see the full joy & wonder list?
Yes. The full Joy & Wonder reading list, with my notes on each book, the covers and the personal reading tools, lives inside the Book Therapy membership. You also get the whole A to Z of Book Prescriptions, the journalling, and writing tools and reading progress tracking.
Are these joy & wonder books suitable if I've never read anything on the topic before?
Yes. The list is deliberately diverse in order to ensure there is something for everyone, whether that's a short memoir, a poem to sit with over a cup of tea, or a novel to properly disappear into. If something feels too close to what you're going through right now, you have the option to put it down. And another book on the list might be more helpful.
Related reading lists
If Joy & Wonder resonates, these companion themes from the A–Z of Book Prescriptions may meet you next.
Letter J
Jealousy
For the hot, embarrassing feeling of wanting to hold on tight. Writers on jealousy without judgement.
Letter R
Restlessness
For the itch you can't quite locate. Reads on wanting more, wanting elsewhere, and what it might actually mean.
Letter R
Re-invention
For the moment you realise the old shape no longer fits. Books on shedding a self and building the next one.
Letter R
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
For the physical, disproportionate wallop of any hint of criticism. Writing on the RSD that so often rides alongside ADHD.
Letter U
Unemployment
For the empty diary and the awkward question at parties. Books on rebuilding when the job that held your identity is gone.
Letter S
Secrets
For the things you have never told anyone. Writing on the cost of secrets, and the relief of the right person hearing them.