Letter E
eXistential Distress
Exploring questions of meaning, mortality, freedom, identity and purpose that can leave us feeling unsettled or disconnected.
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Frequently asked questions
What are the best books to read about existential distress?
A good place to start is the fiction, nonfiction, and poetry suggested in this reading list. They each explore this theme differently, so you can select what you are connecting with the most.
Can reading really help with existential distress?
Yes, although it should not be viewed as a substitute for therapy. The right book can help you articulate feelings you have struggled to explain, offer reassurance that you are not alone, and provide a new perspective. Sometimes that insight is exactly what you need; at other times, it can encourage you to seek further support.
Who curates the eXistential Distress reading list?
Bijal Shah, a bibliotherapist, founder of Book Therapy and The Book Therapy Method and the author of Bibliotherapy: The Healing Power of Reading (Hachette, 2024). She has spent over ten years matching readers to books for all kinds of emotional and life themes, including existential distress.
Do I need a Book Therapy membership to see the full existential distress list?
Yes. The full eXistential Distress reading list, with my notes on each book and the personal reading tools, lives inside the Book Therapy membership. You also get the whole A to Z of Book Prescriptions, the journalling, and writing tools and reading progress tracking.
Are these existential distress books suitable if I've never read anything on the topic before?
Yes. The list is deliberately diverse in order to ensure there is something for everyone, whether that's a short memoir, a poem to sit with over a cup of tea, or a novel to properly disappear into. If something feels too close to what you're going through right now, you have the option to put it down. And another book on the list might be more helpful.
Related reading lists
If eXistential Distress resonates, these companion themes from the A–Z of Book Prescriptions may meet you next.
Letter F
Family & Inherited Trauma
Exploring how difficult experiences, beliefs and patterns can travel through generations and influence family relationships.
Letter F
Friendship
Exploring the joys, challenges and changing dynamics of friendship, from belonging and intimacy to conflict and loss.
Letter G
Grief & Loss
Exploring bereavement and other forms of loss, honouring the many different ways people experience and carry grief.
Letter G
Guilt
Understanding feelings of responsibility or regret and exploring how we can respond with reflection, compassion and perspective.
Letter H
Healing & Hope
Stories and perspectives centred on recovery, renewal and the possibility of moving forward after difficult experiences.
Letter H
Helplessness
When nothing you do seems to change things, these books explore agency, acceptance and the quiet power that remains.