Letter G
Grief & Loss
Exploring bereavement and other forms of loss, honouring the many different ways people experience and carry grief.
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Frequently asked questions
What are the best books to read about grief & loss?
A good place to start is the fiction, nonfiction, and poetry suggested in this reading list. They each explore this theme differently, so you can select what you are connecting with the most.
Can reading really help with grief & loss?
Yes, although it should not be viewed as a substitute for therapy. The right book can help you articulate feelings you have struggled to explain, offer reassurance that you are not alone, and provide a new perspective. Sometimes that insight is exactly what you need; at other times, it can encourage you to seek further support.
Who curates the Grief & Loss reading list?
Bijal Shah, a bibliotherapist, founder of Book Therapy and The Book Therapy Method and the author of Bibliotherapy: The Healing Power of Reading (Hachette, 2024). She has spent over ten years matching readers to books for all kinds of emotional and life themes, including grief & loss.
Do I need a Book Therapy membership to see the full grief & loss list?
Yes. The full Grief & Loss reading list, with my notes on each book and the personal reading tools, lives inside the Book Therapy membership. You also get the whole A to Z of Book Prescriptions, the journalling, and writing tools and reading progress tracking.
Are these grief & loss books suitable if I've never read anything on the topic before?
Yes. The list is deliberately diverse in order to ensure there is something for everyone, whether that's a short memoir, a poem to sit with over a cup of tea, or a novel to properly disappear into. If something feels too close to what you're going through right now, you have the option to put it down. And another book on the list might be more helpful.
Related reading lists
If Grief & Loss resonates, these companion themes from the A–Z of Book Prescriptions may meet you next.
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Guilt
Understanding feelings of responsibility or regret and exploring how we can respond with reflection, compassion and perspective.
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People Pleasing
Exploring the urge to prioritise others' approval or needs, often at the expense of our own boundaries and wellbeing.
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Relocating
Exploring the emotional experience of moving somewhere new, from disruption and homesickness to discovery and belonging.
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Resilience
Exploring our ability to adapt, recover and continue moving forward through uncertainty, adversity and change.
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Solitude
Exploring the restorative and reflective possibilities of time alone, and the distinction between solitude and loneliness.
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Finding Purpose and Meaning
Exploring what gives life direction, significance and fulfilment during both ordinary and challenging times.