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Midlife
Reflecting on identity, relationships, ageing, purpose and possibility during the often transformative middle years of life.
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Frequently asked questions
What are the best books to read about midlife?
A good place to start is the fiction, nonfiction, and poetry suggested in this reading list. They each explore this theme differently, so you can select what you are connecting with the most.
Can reading really help with midlife?
Yes, although it should not be viewed as a substitute for therapy. The right book can help you articulate feelings you have struggled to explain, offer reassurance that you are not alone, and provide a new perspective. Sometimes that insight is exactly what you need; at other times, it can encourage you to seek further support.
Who curates the Midlife reading list?
Bijal Shah, a bibliotherapist, founder of Book Therapy and The Book Therapy Method and the author of Bibliotherapy: The Healing Power of Reading (Hachette, 2024). She has spent over ten years matching readers to books for all kinds of emotional and life themes, including midlife.
Do I need a Book Therapy membership to see the full midlife list?
Yes. The full Midlife reading list, with my notes on each book and the personal reading tools, lives inside the Book Therapy membership. You also get the whole A to Z of Book Prescriptions, the journalling, and writing tools and reading progress tracking.
Are these midlife books suitable if I've never read anything on the topic before?
Yes. The list is deliberately diverse in order to ensure there is something for everyone, whether that's a short memoir, a poem to sit with over a cup of tea, or a novel to properly disappear into. If something feels too close to what you're going through right now, you have the option to put it down. And another book on the list might be more helpful.
Related reading lists
If Midlife resonates, these companion themes from the A–Z of Book Prescriptions may meet you next.
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Exploring greater awareness of the present moment through attention, acceptance and a less judgmental relationship with our thoughts.
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Motivation
Exploring what helps us begin, persist and reconnect with goals when energy, confidence or direction feels limited.