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Bullying, Social or Relational
Understanding exclusion, rumours, manipulation and other behaviours designed to damage relationships or social standing.
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Frequently asked questions
What are the best books to read about bullying, social or relational?
A good place to start is the fiction, nonfiction, and poetry suggested in this reading list. They each explore this theme differently, so you can select what you are connecting with the most.
Can reading really help with bullying, social or relational?
Yes, although it should not be viewed as a substitute for therapy. The right book can help you articulate feelings you have struggled to explain, offer reassurance that you are not alone, and provide a new perspective. Sometimes that insight is exactly what you need; at other times, it can encourage you to seek further support.
Who curates the Bullying, Social or Relational reading list?
Bijal Shah, a bibliotherapist, founder of Book Therapy and The Book Therapy Method and the author of Bibliotherapy: The Healing Power of Reading (Hachette, 2024). She has spent over ten years matching readers to books for all kinds of emotional and life themes, including bullying, social or relational.
Do I need a Book Therapy membership to see the full bullying, social or relational list?
Yes. The full Bullying, Social or Relational reading list, with my notes on each book and the personal reading tools, lives inside the Book Therapy membership. You also get the whole A to Z of Book Prescriptions, the journalling, and writing tools and reading progress tracking.
Are these bullying, social or relational books suitable if I've never read anything on the topic before?
Yes. The list is deliberately diverse in order to ensure there is something for everyone, whether that's a short memoir, a poem to sit with over a cup of tea, or a novel to properly disappear into. If something feels too close to what you're going through right now, you have the option to put it down. And another book on the list might be more helpful.
Related reading lists
If Bullying, Social or Relational resonates, these companion themes from the A–Z of Book Prescriptions may meet you next.
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Boundaries
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Body Image & Embodiment
Exploring our relationship with our bodies, appearance and the experience of feeling at home within ourselves.
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Burnout
Exploring emotional and physical exhaustion caused by prolonged stress, alongside ways of reconnecting with rest and sustainable living.
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Bullying
Exploring the impact of repeated intimidation, exclusion or mistreatment and the journey towards confidence, safety and recovery.
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Belonging
Exploring our need to feel accepted, understood and connected to people, places and communities.
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Dissociation
Exploring experiences of feeling disconnected from thoughts, emotions, memories, surroundings or one's sense of self.