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Alternative Lives
Exploring the lives we might have lived, unexpected paths and the possibilities that emerge when life changes direction.
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Frequently asked questions
What are the best books to read about alternative lives?
A good place to start is the fiction, nonfiction, and poetry suggested in this reading list. They each explore this theme differently, so you can select what you are connecting with the most.
Can reading really help with alternative lives?
Yes, although it should not be viewed as a substitute for therapy. The right book can help you articulate feelings you have struggled to explain, offer reassurance that you are not alone, and provide a new perspective. Sometimes that insight is exactly what you need; at other times, it can encourage you to seek further support.
Who curates the Alternative Lives reading list?
Bijal Shah, a bibliotherapist, founder of Book Therapy and The Book Therapy Method and the author of Bibliotherapy: The Healing Power of Reading (Hachette, 2024). She has spent over ten years matching readers to books for all kinds of emotional and life themes, including alternative lives.
Do I need a Book Therapy membership to see the full alternative lives list?
Yes. The full Alternative Lives reading list, with my notes on each book and the personal reading tools, lives inside the Book Therapy membership. You also get the whole A to Z of Book Prescriptions, the journalling, and writing tools and reading progress tracking.
Are these alternative lives books suitable if I've never read anything on the topic before?
Yes. The list is deliberately diverse in order to ensure there is something for everyone, whether that's a short memoir, a poem to sit with over a cup of tea, or a novel to properly disappear into. If something feels too close to what you're going through right now, you have the option to put it down. And another book on the list might be more helpful.
Related reading lists
If Alternative Lives resonates, these companion themes from the A–Z of Book Prescriptions may meet you next.
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Anxiety
Exploring worry, fear and overwhelm, alongside perspectives that can help create greater calm, understanding and resilience.
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ADHD
Exploring life with ADHD, including attention, motivation, emotional regulation, relationships and embracing different ways of thinking.
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Affairs
Exploring infidelity, betrayal, desire and the emotional complexity of relationships affected by affairs.
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Anger
Understanding anger, what may lie beneath it and healthier ways to recognise, express and respond to difficult emotions.
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Autism
Exploring autistic experiences, identity, relationships and different ways of sensing, communicating with and understanding the world.
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Abandonment
Exploring the emotional impact of feeling left, rejected or unsupported, and pathways towards security and trust.